How do you deal with unfriendly people?
Ok, I've always had a pretty outgoing personality, so I talk to people and ask them questions about them because I am genuinely interested and want to get to know them better. Recently, after a bout of depression, I realized I was being a people pleaser, and that means a lot of people don't care about how they treat me. Is that why people are being unfriendly to me?
Sometimes, even when I say thank you to someone, they continue as if they haven't heard me. I realize they may not have heard me, but my sensitive nature makes it hard to accept such treatment.
So, how do you deal with unfriendly and cold people in your lives?
Sometimes, even when I say thank you to someone, they continue as if they haven't heard me. I realize they may not have heard me, but my sensitive nature makes it hard to accept such treatment.
So, how do you deal with unfriendly and cold people in your lives?
- 2 years ago
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Don't change the fact that you have an outgoing personality, the way people treat others is a reflection on their own lives. Toughen up your attitude when dealing with rude people, they are not worth worrying about.
In many built-up parts of the world, people don't know how to deal with spontaneous kindness, they may instead feel you have some dark agenda. You have to learn to ignore such crudity.
When you say thank you, make very brief eye contact - confidently showing how genuine and heart-felt your words are. If they choose to ignore them, move on.
In many built-up parts of the world, people don't know how to deal with spontaneous kindness, they may instead feel you have some dark agenda. You have to learn to ignore such crudity.
When you say thank you, make very brief eye contact - confidently showing how genuine and heart-felt your words are. If they choose to ignore them, move on.
- 2 years ago
Holy shit all this makes sense! :D
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